5.0 out of 5 stars Recent Purchase

S.M. · May 25, 2025

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5.0 out of 5 stars Alot of helpful information

M. · June 12, 2025

Love very helpful

5.0 out of 5 stars Very helpful for CPTSD/Codependence Recovery

E. · November 27, 2024

This book, although very triggering at times, helped me break through a very big layer of denial about my family history. Although it can be sad to face a grim reality, it was nice to feel “seen” and know that there are others who have had the same struggles. After seeing some negative reviews, it became apparent to me that these reviewers have either been blessed enough to not have had to endure an abusive childhood or they still are in deep denial. This book maybe isn’t for beginners on their journey to recovery, but it was a profoundly helpful and riveting read for me. Hope all you survivors take care of yourself out there, sending you my love and support.

5.0 out of 5 stars The Best Book I've Found on the Subject of Codependence

T.R. · July 14, 2024

I've read a lot of books on this subject. Most of the books I read approached the subject assuming I'm living with an addict, or I am an addict. Neither of which is true in my case. I was raised by an alcoholic parent and have pretty severe codependent qualities. This book approaches codependence from an abuse perspective, defining abuse any parenting that was not nurturing. I was shocked how many times her narrative hit with me. If you are really striving to put codependence in the past, I would wholeheartedly recommend Facing Codependence by Pia Mellody, along with talk therapy.

4.0 out of 5 stars Must buy

J.M. · May 21, 2025

Highly recommend for relationships with loved one

5.0 out of 5 stars Must Read For All Who Are or Near A Codependent

A.C. · October 12, 2023

If you’re reading this review then the greatest gift you can give yourself, right now, is this book. For my work and personal life I perform ongoing research of childhood trauma from neglect, mental abuse, physical abuse, substance abuse, and self harm. Pia’s updated book on Facing Codependence is life changing. Why? Because, Pia explains in easy to understand terms how codependency is developed, traits, and tools to overcome the devastation of this disease. Additionally, Pia shares her decades of research on family dysfunction. My favorite part of Pia’s writing style is how she explains a functional and dysfunctional family. Must have for anyone who has a personal experience of abuse, neglect, or addiction as a child or adult. Equally, a must for anyone who is close to an individual (or group) that’s suffers from any other above mentioned.I would recommend Pia’s other books and YouTube videos as well.

5.0 out of 5 stars A MUST READ FOR EVERYONE

k. · February 29, 2024

This is a phenomenal book. This book should be required reading for every person before entering a relationship. This book breaks down codependency in very easy to understand terms as well as easily to relate to terms too. It goes indepth into the different ypes of codependency. If you are looking for better, healthier, relationships in your life, this book is a must read. We are reading it as a family with my adult kids. It has brought us all so much closer and healed so many misunderstandings. If you have substance abuse or narcissism in your family, this book is just so helpful in understanding these conditions and provides hope for those affected. This book is excellent. I can't say it enough.

5.0 out of 5 stars A real turning point…

S.J. · October 19, 2024

This book was referred by my therapist ten years ago, and the explanations and end-of-chapter questions really helped open my eyes to the codependent patterns woven into my identity and behavioral patterns. Definitely one of the best I’ve read on the subject.

FACING CODEPENDENCE de PIA MELLODY

M.M.O. · June 7, 2014

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Outstanding!

A.C. · July 20, 2023

This book will blow your mind! Absolutely brilliant and so incredibly useful!

Underwhelming

M.A. · April 14, 2025

Good as an introduction but if you seek depth, I recommend John Bradshaw.

Intriguing read

D. · August 16, 2020

This book explains what codependence is and how it affects the relationship with self and people around you. Pia does a great job in presenting codependence symptoms and also the natural characteristics of a child are. She also describes the relation of overnurturing or undernurturing of those characteristics to codependence symptoms. One thing I didn't like was the tools to correct those symptoms are mentioned in a different book. Nonetheless bringing those unconscious and supposedly authentic reactions to limelight makes me more mindful about what I feel and what I do.

Excellent

C.d. · November 26, 2015

Essential reading for anyone who has difficulties with relationships - either personal or professional. The workbook that goes with it (and needs to be bought separately) is also excellent.